Of late the concept of HIV, and HIV testing has been popping on my radar quite a bit. Mind you, this is a good thing. It should be popping onto all of our radars regularly, and we should be discussing it. As far as we believe we have come, HIV is still with us, and there is still no cure. This is life or death stuff, but I will skip that lecture for now.
I do wish to offer a clarification however. Those who stumble across my posts on Facebook have likely seen the phrase RU+UR-? What I wish to clarify is that that should NEVER be taken as a condemnation of anyone who is HIV+. Rather, it is a stern and appropriate question directly to those whose status is unknown. positive, negative, both imply a knowledge of ones own health, and are greeted with absolute respect by me. Those who don't know lose some points, and those bold enough to claim to be disease free without having been tested are downright dangerous in my book.
To put it bluntly, I would have no reservations about sleeping with someone who was HIV+ and appropriately safe. As a point of fact, I have done so. Someone of unknown status who plays reckless will NEVER see the inside of my bedroom. Actually, anyone who is reckless is disallowed from intimate contact with me. HIV does not scare me, ignorance does, carelessness does, disrespect and selfishness do. Simple enough?
And so, I urge you all, take the ten minutes to get tested. It is free in most locations, painless, quick and highly accurate. Test, test regularly, know your status. And please join me in refusing unsafe sex and dispelling anyone that wont get informed. When we stop new cases of HIV, we all win.